Other than taking a day and a half off every couple of weeks, for all intents and purposes I'm back to a regular work schedule. That means that just about every other weekend, I have a Friday-Saturday program that keeps me busy into Friday evening and starts up again pretty early on Saturday morning. To make things easier, I usually stay in the city on Friday nights. It's one of those weekends where I'll be staying over, but this time I'm going to have company.
It will be a surprise to her, but my sissy wife tammy will be keeping me company in my hotel room tonight. As I post this, she's getting ready to board a plane back home and should be landing by mid-afternoon. she's planning on going back to the office for a couple of hours before heading home. I'm going to leave her a message to call me when she lands and I'll let her know about the change in her plans. There will be no need for her to drive back home.
I've got her overnight bag with me along with a change of clothes for tomorrow morning. she's going to look delicious tonight in a pair of babydolls while she worships me front and back before I make love to her. I've also got my own bag with all the toys I need for the fun I have planned. Big Blackie will be making the trip, as well as the crop, wooden spoon, wrist cuffs, and a little something sexy for yours truly to wear.
This little surprise was brought about by my sissy wife's needs. In general, I think good submissives are pretty high maintenance. While Dommes can be demanding and exacting, a sub needs constant oversight and attention so that their emotions don't get out of control. The telltale signs are often very subtle, but I definitely notice them. By no means am I an expert on this, but it seems to work that way for us, and I've discussed this with two other women in FLR's who have experienced similar issues.
This week, no doubt prompted in part by my posts about my potential female submissive, tammy's been a little overwhelmed and simply not herself. The late night phone conversation we had yesterday has her feeling much better. It was a nice start to getting her back to her normal self. By sunrise tomorrow, I just know she's going to be a very, very happy sissy.
Are you packing diapers for Tammy?
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Hi Ms. Suzanne,
ReplyDeleteThis was one of those great insights that are seldom voiced. I think Em would agree with you wholeheartedly.
Best,
scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse
I have been away so I'm sorry I haven't commented lately. You bring up an excellent point. You are correct that us dommes are demanding but I feel far too many dommmes neglect the subs needs and then wonder why they are moody, bitchy or difficult.
ReplyDeleteI feel it is important that we remember that we expect quite a bit out of our subs therefore we need give back as well. If we do not we should not be surprised with issues when they pop up.
This is interesting and I think you just give me an idea for my next posting.
Ms. Suzanne,
ReplyDeleteI have to agree it is excellent insight. As a submissive male, I see much of myself in the behavior you describe.
RW
You're right Suzanne, they can be pretty high maintenance. But I learned the hard way that if you're far better off paying attention to those emotions and mood swings if you want things to work. Nice post.
ReplyDeleteDiane
Sounds like you two will be having a nice evening. Mick
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