Monday, December 6, 2010

"sissy wife rules"

Back in September, I wrote this post about an excerpt from a 1950's issue of "Housekeeping Monthly" magazine.  The little snippet I wrote about was called "The Good Wife's Guide" and gave housewives tips to make life more pleasant for their husbands.  How sweet. I had seen it before, but a few months ago it was making its rounds through the email channels where I work, each email coming through with some cute little comment by members of both sexes.  I kept my comments to myself.  If only my colleagues knew that I already had such a wonderful "wife" at home.  My dreams of a full-time 1950's housewife haven't been totally fulfilled (yet).  tammy's isn't a stay-at-home wife, but when she's there, she would give Barbara Billingsley (Leave-it-to-Beaver's Mom for those of you who are of the younger generations!) a run for her money!

In the post I threw out the notion that given the changes in today's society with more Female Led Relationships, it might be time for an updated version of this little vignette.  One of our loyal readers, sissy cindy lynn, accepted the challenge and submitted her own version, titled "sissy wife rules." Without further adieu, here's her 2010 version!  Thanks cindy lynn! 

sissy wife rules
by sissy cindy lynn

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before to have a delicious meal ready, on time for her return. This is a way of letting her know that you have been thinking about her and are concerned about her needs. Most women are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially her favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when she arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair, some perfume she likes you to wear, clean fresh feminine clothing, and be fresh-looking. She has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for her. Her boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the house just before your Mistress arrives.

Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc and then run a dust-cloth over the tables.

Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for her to unwind by. Your Mistress will feel she has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for her comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and she would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of her arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.

Be happy and delighted to see her. Strive to please her, anticipate her needs and wants, she is your superior.

Greet her with a warm smile, greet her as she has trained you, kissing her feet, or bottom with passion and delight, showing sincerity in your desire to please her and your joy at being near her. She’s worked hard all day and a friendly face is much appreciated!

Listen to her. You may have a dozen important things to tell her, but the moment of her arrival is not the time. Let her talk first - remember her topics of conversation are more important that yours.  Be submissive to her and her guests, those men and women provide her a type of fulfillment you as a sissy are incapable of, show respect as well as submission and sissy femininity.   Love her, love your sissy-hood and submissive place in her life.

Make the evening hers. Never, ever complain if she comes home late or goes out to dinner, or out on a date, with friends or other places of entertainment without you.  Instead, try to understand her world of strain and pressure, her desire as a woman for a fulfilling lover or her very real need to be at home and relax.

Your goal: Try to make sure her home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your Mistress can renew herself in body and spirit.

Don't greet her with complaints and problems. Listen to her and don’t offer to fix problems unless she asks, support her feelings emotionally, be understanding and always leave no doubt in her mind, she leads, you humbly follow.

Don't complain if she’s late home for dinner or even if she stays out all night, or even takes a vacation without you. Count them as minor compared to what she might have gone through that day.

Make her comfortable. Have her lean back in a comfortable chair or have her lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for her, as well as your soft lips and soothing tongue if she so desires it. If her back and feet need rubbing, have massage oil ready, if she wants a soothing bath, make it special, if her bladder gets full, no need to walk all the way to the bathroom, that’s what a sissy is for.  If sissy has made an error she finds unpleasant, she is correcting you for your own good and sissy should comply happily and obediently, even if brought to tears. 

Arrange her pillow and offer to take off her shoes, offer a foot rub or kisses to her feet, foot adoration is so relaxing to many women. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.  Listen, rather than speak.

Don't ask her questions about her actions or question her judgment or integrity. Her life is her own, a sissy is there to support her and make her life more pleasant and whom she dates, has feelings for, either real man or beautiful woman, is none of any sissy’s concern. A sissy’s existence is to be there to love, adore and support her and what she wants or needs, listening, giving comfort, and making her life better. Remember she is the master of the house, Mistress over you, as a sissy and as such will always exercise her will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question her.  

Just as a sissy has continually has to strive to extend her efforts and prove herself, remain faithful, loyal to her Mistress and chaste learning to love her humiliation, training, even sexual frustration; it is Mistress’ right to be free to enjoy any lovers, male or female along with a fully liberated and extensive fulfilling sexual life of her own as she so desires. A sissy’s job is to make Mistress proud through enthusiastic obedience, compliance and submission. The more sissy and fem you become, the more at ease and pleasant for her you are. 
A good sissy wife always knows her place, when alone with Mistress or with whomever she exposes you to. Submit and obey happily, precisely and quickly.

How about a nice round of applause for sissy cindy lynn?  Take a bow cindy....then curtsey!


  1. Thanks ever so much for posting my words here Ms. Suzanne, a bow and then a curtsey! Did You see my pretty sissy panties? Hope so! See this made me jump inside. Thanks!

  2. sissy cindy: congrats. you are obviously a very good sissy. Your Mistress must be very pleased with you.


  3. Thank You Ms. Florida Dom. i am a single sissy these days, divorced about 5 years, but i curtsey and thank You for Your appreciation!!!

  4. A great post and we can all learn from the
    instructions, thank You so much.

  5. Anonymous12/10/2010

    I know that this is somewhat off topic, but i've been wondering. During Sherry and your Aunt's visits, is tammy also responsible for hand washing their bras, panties and other intimates?

    Given that she handles yours, it seems appropriate that she would...

  6. tammy has handled Sherry's during most of her visits. Thus far, that's been the extent of hand laundering other women's intimates.

  7. Such a joyous chore of hand laundering intimates.

  8. sissy wife , thats me

  9. yes , it is all very reasonable and what I would expect