Friday, May 17, 2013

Ending Some Streaks

Things don't seem to be happening here as quickly as they used to.  Two examples come to mind immediately.  The time elapsed between my postings and the time elapsed between sissy tammy's orgasms.

Real life gets in the way of my postings, but I can't say the same about my wife's big O's.  I've had quite a bit to do with that.

It's been a week since I last posted and that streak's now come to an end.  

And now some of you will be happy to hear that tammy, only because of the love and benevolence of her nearly perfect Mistress, had the opportunity to enjoy National Masturbation Month like many of the other sex-starved wankers who took matters into their own hands.

Yes, at almost exactly the midway point of the month, I decided that my efforts to have her produce an orgasm while locked in her cute little cage were not going to work.  They were also starting to wear on my own patience.

The orgasm-that-she-couldn't-wait-for didn't take very long to come about.  From the time I surprised her with my decision to release the clitty cock from it's sissy prison to the time she spewed her juices all over my tummy, no more than 5 minutes could have gone by.  I swear the clean up took longer than that.

After she'd dealt with her mess and my own needs had been met, it was time to go back into the cage.

Will it be another two weeks before she cums again?  I don't know.  Perhaps.  she's been such a good submissive these past couple of weeks, maybe there is something to prolonged chastity. 

Friday, May 10, 2013

A Few Days Off

We're off for a few days of R&R this weekend followed by what's going to be a very, very hectic couple of weeks.  Posts here may be a little sporadic, but not nearly as sporadic as my sissy's orgasms have been.  We may be off for a few days, but there's no guarantee she'll be "getting off."

I'm still trying my best but with our busy schedules looming, something better happen soon or it's going to be an extra long month for tammy. 

I also want to mention how much I appreciate everyone's comments.  Awhile ago I decided to put in a filter to avoid spam comments and it seems to have worked very well.  Everyone who takes the time to comment has to put up with those annoying code words so it's an extra step or two that you have to take.  Just so you know, I do read them all even though I don't respond to them individually. 

Nearly all of the comments bring either a smile to my face or a discerning frown.  I'm impressed by the diversity of opinion that exists on some things, especially my decision to keep sissy locked for the month (remember though, I can change my mind if I want).  There's support for both sides of this issue, and there's nothing I like more than a spirited debate.  However, it's important to remember that FemDom or Female Led Relationships are not democracies!

One very flattering comment mentioned how much they missed the almost daily postings that used to take place a couple years ago on these pages.  The fewer postings aren't indicative of any real significant changes here at All Mine.  Like everyone else, our lives are busy and at times get a little busier with issues that everyone faces.  All in all, our lives are pretty much the same as they were  a couple of years ago. 

I guess the biggest change is that our relationships with one another have matured and evolved.  We're still doing the same things it's just that I don't write about them as often as I did.  What was something new and exciting a few years ago has become a little more routine.  I don't like the way that sounds because it's all still exciting.  It's just that we've all gotten used to it.  I mean, readers might get a little bored hearing about tammy serving Jay and I our morning coffee in her maids uniform every time it happens! 

There's also an element of contentment and happiness here at all mine.  We're happy with the way things are in our lives right now and realize just how lucky we are.  

There's also no real pressing kinky urge that I have to act upon (at least not at this moment) so don't expect to read about my getting into pony play or extreme BDSM with tammy any time soon.  Although, you never know.  I could wake up with a wild hare someday and shock you all :)

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Sissy Dry Spells

We're about a quarter of the way through May (National Masturbation Month for those of you who are interested) and there still hasn't been an orgasmic eruption from my sissy's caged little sissy clitty.  Not that I haven't tried.

I have to give her worlds of credit though.  she hasn't let this little drought affect her performance in other areas.  It's kind of like a professional basketball player who's having a bad shooting night, or a baseball player who falls into a batting slump.  You'll hear the commentator say "Well, he may not be doing much offensively, but he's helping the team in so many other ways."

The same is true of tammy.  her fluffing, pussy worship and ass licking skills are as good as they've ever been.  The team here at All Mine can attest to that.  However, even though she's deserving of all this credit, I'm still leery about shortening the anticipated period of confinement.  I think a month (especially one with 31 days - February would be for wimps) would set a good benchmark for future reference.  I don't envision any behavior that might warrant extended periods like this, but one never knows. 

In the meantime, I'll continue to try and help her through this dry spell as best as I can, but the next few weeks are incredibly busy for me, especially the next seven days or so.  As an act of good faith, since I'm going to be so busy this month, I may even allow my sister Sherry to help out once and awhile.  The only caveat being that tammy stay locked in our efforts to help her join in the celebration of National Masturbation Months.

Although I have been thinking that maybe a change of CB's might be in order.  Maybe I should relent and look for one that isn't so restrictive?  I'm open to suggestions, but only after the month of May is over.  I wouldn't want to change devices in midstream.  I'm sure the manipulation involved in even a quick change would turn into a messy situation.

On the other hand, instead of something less restrictive, maybe a little extra bondage and a few more restrictions might lead to increased arousal and eventually, the output we've all been waiting for.  That might be worth a try. 

In the meantime, I'll continue to enjoy the many advantages of having a submissive sissy constantly at my beck and call. 

Monday, May 6, 2013

My Best Efforts

Poor tammy.  We're only 5+ days into her month of chastity and I think she's starting to go a little stir-crazy.  Gee whiz....and I thought Mick over at UCTMW was the most pampered slave in the blogosphere?  It's likely he still is (I'm surprised that cage of his doesn't have rust on it) but my own submissive is a close second.

Granted, I'm not an expert at keeping submissive males in chastity.  I had no experience before I snapped the lock on tammy's CB the first time, so all I know about is what we've done and what I've read about male chastity and what's on other chastity blogs.  So, unless all that stuff is plain BS, I think my sissy is really overreacting. 

She failed to orgasm this weekend while I was using Big Blackie on her.  I even tried a slimmer vibrating Feeldoe and that didn't work either.  I thought she was getting close a few times but nothing happened.  And believe me, this isn't something that she'd be willing to fake.  I think she's just a little nervous about it.  You know, kind of like a guy who can't get it up when the bell rings?

I was about to give it another try on Sunday night but lo and behold, the Trophy Cock made an unexpected appearance and I shifted gears to a different type of activity :)

Friday, May 3, 2013

Chastity Orgasms

We're on to Day 3 of National Masturbation Month and things are moving along rather nicely.  I've had two self-generated orgasms (with a little help from the Hitachi) myself, two others from my sissy's wonderful lips and tongue and yet a few more because of a guest appearance by The Trophy Cock last night.  I love surprises :)

tammy remains locked and seems to be no worse for the wear.  Suggestions that she be allowed out for "cleaning/trimming....and a short rest" have been duly noted and taken into consideration.  Not sure what she'd be resting from though, and nice hot showers and baths not only keep her clean, but are also very soothing to anyone in chastity.  Trimming?  I'm assuming that reference is to pubic hair and if so, that can wait until the thirty-one day chastity saga is over.

The rest of the month doesn't necessarily have to be orgasm free however.  I mentioned in my last post that tammy can have as many Big O's as she wants while we're both enjoying Big Blackie.  I've already promised her to expect several sessions of that type of lovemaking this weekend.  

Jay's presence here this weekend is a little iffy, but either way I'm going to get some type of cock; either the Trophy Cock variety or one of my favorite dildos strapped to my sissy's head for me to ride.  Both are guaranteed to provide me with as much orgasmic pleasure as I want.

tammy's also going to get plenty of cock this weekend.  Whether she orgasms or not remains to be seen.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Masturbation, Chastity & Brotherly Love

I took a little hiatus from the blogosphere and I feel quite refreshed (and mischievous) as a result.  My last post was intended to get chronic masturbators a little worried that they were running out of time to fulfill their National Masturbation Month duties.  Of course it was only the end of April and if any of them fell for it, at least they got a head start.

But now that the Big (O) Month is actually here, it's nice to see that folks everywhere are getting into the stroke of things.  Check out what our friends in Philadelphia (the City of Brotherly Love) are doing.  They're actually raising money for local sex education groups with a Masturbate-A-Thon!  If you're so inclined, why not do your part and cum for the cause?  Think about how much money the WC could raise single-handedly!

I've decided to celebrate this special month here at All Mine is a very special and perverse way.  Naturally, I'm going to get as much of the Trophy Cock as I can and if Jay's not available well, I'm going to make up for it with regular use of my Hitachi or some other power tool.  We're going to temporarily suspend our efforts to "go green" until June rolls around.

As far as tammy goes, I'm going to take a different approach.  I've always considered myself a pretty benevolent Domme, especially for someone who keeps her sissy locked up so often.  Mastubation for tammy is a privilege that's earned and her chastity is a means to make sure there's no abuse.  I've also never kept a "running clock" of just how long she's been locked up, like the kind you see on some blogs that deal with chastity.  That's about to change.

Today, I embark on upon an effort to keep my sissy cuckold wife locked up until midnight on May 31st.  Let's hope I don't cave in and unlock her before then.  While the rest of the world's population (all right, maybe not all of it) partakes in National Masturbation Month to their heart's content, my sissy is going to be safely tucked away in her CB and refraining from any self-gratifying activity.

Now that's not to say she won't be allowed to experience an orgasm.  She can have as many of those as she can experience while I'm making love to her with Big Blackie or some other cute dildo attached to my strap-on harness while she's in her CB.  she's cum that way quite a few times over the years.  It's just a little more difficult.  The next month should be good practice for her and maybe make it a bit easier in the future!

Friday, April 26, 2013

Mistress & Sissy Masturbation

How did I miss this?  And, there are only five days left.  It's a true sign that I'm slipping and, so are some of my blogger friends (hint, hint).

May is National Masturbation Month and, shame on me for not bringing it to my readers' attention.  

Masturbation is a very pleasurable activity.  How often is it that you can get that much gratification with so little effort.  You don't need to spend any money, you really don't need any special equipment if you don't want to, you can do it by yourself and you can do it whenever and wherever you want (depending on your own inhibitions of course).

According to this article at yourtango.com,  5 Facts You Didn't Know About Masturbation, more women masturbate than are willing to admit, with some research showing the number could be as high as 92%.  Personally, I think 90% of the remaining 8% who don't could be easily convinced to adopt the practice on a regular basis :)  The article also points out that people who have sex regularly masturbate more than people who don't.  Count me as someone who falls into that category.  

In the absence of the Trophy Cock and my sissy wife, there's nothing better than curling up and spreading out with my favorite power tool of choice (The Hitachi) or some other change-of-pace toy I happen to own.  It does wonders for my overall wellness.

While masturbation is pleasurable and important for both males and females, I think it's probably even more pleasurable and important for sissy cuckolds like tammy who spend a good amount of time in their chastity devices (we're not talking about those cuckolds who adhere to the no-touch-rule at this time).  Often it s really the only type of sexual relief they get and probably not that often at that.  So, when they're given the permission to masturbate they're very appreciative.  As a Domme, I can attest that you get plenty of mileage out of granting this special treat.

So tonight I'm going to engage in one of my favorite activities; being worshiped by my sissy wife and then allowing her to stroke herself until she shoots her sissy juice on my tummy.  she'll get to lick it off, then lick me again.  Who knows how many times we'll go through that cyle!  It's a good night to do it.  Jay's not around and when he's here tomorrow, it will be a cuckold night.

I hope tammy doesn't ruin the evening by losing control while she's licking me.  she's been known to do that.